A friend
sent me an email today
on Aging.
It expresses
what I've
discovered for myself.
I'm sharing it with
those who are in their "golden years"
and with those
who have this special time to look forward to.
As I've aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend..
I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM or sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60 &70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love .. I will.
I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set.
They, too, will get old.
I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.
Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.
I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.
So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.
As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore..
I've even earned the right to be wrong.
So, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever,
but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day(if I feel like it).
TODAY I CELEBRATE
The peace and contentment I feel
at this special age.
1 comment:
it sounds good on paper, and i wish i felt this way but i don't, who ever said golden years has not been there, everything breaks, can't do what i could do 4 years ago, find i don't want to do what i did 4 years ago. i do not feel peace and contentment with old age at all. i do not like being 66 years old and staring 67 in the face at all. i want to be 40 again. the only peace i feel is i don't have to work at my old work place anymore, retirement i like.
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